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Relationship Rescue: A Six Step Strategy That Could Save Your Marriage
January 8th 2018
If you end up in a bitter argument every time you try working out your problems, it creates what is called "Anticipatory Anxiety". You fear discussing issues knowing that it will turn out poorly. So you either start avoiding issues or have a sense of hopelessness and dread in the middle of the argument.
Many couples come into counseling wondering "Can our relationship be fixed/healed/restored? You may be asking the exact same question. We have given hope to couples who argue constantly, who've said they were one step away from divorce, where one or both persons have been unfaithful, where there are values differences when raising their children, etc. From our experience, you have a great chance of making it work if you are both willing to put time and effort into the marriage and follow the process we have refined for over 15 years.
We don't only focus on giving you advice for the problem you are coming in with, but we give you the necessary tools to work through your current conflict and any potential conflict you will have in the future. We've learned through the decades that when you are mad at each other, the natural way couples communicate does not work. It often leads to more conflict. So instead, we impose a new structure on how to talk that has produced remarkable results. (I think this is the best weekend we had ever", Everything I have ever wanted while I was growing up, I now have". We not only give you tools, but we also offer special insights to help you protect your relationship from potential harm. As critical as this is for a successful marriage, most couples hardly spend any time creating these guidlines together that help stabilize the relationship in the long-run. In summary, we offer both relationship tools and insights that have been formulated over the last 20 years to help you overcome conflict no and in the future, and tried and true insights that lead to conversations that protect the marriage and lead to genuine and loving connections.
The good news is that we have helped hundreds of couples overcome the most difficult marriage problems like poor communication, all the way to gut wrenching affairs. With quality therapy you can expect to ...
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Relationship Rescue: A Six Step Strategy That Could Save Your Marriage
January 8th 2018